Research has found that fantasy content differs between the sexes. First, men’s sexual fantasies are more sexually explicit than women’s. Not only are they more focused on the sexual act itself, but they frequently include mention of specific body parts. Second, women’s fantasies contain more in the way of emotional and romantic content than do men’s. Women frequently describe the setting of their sexual encounter in detail (e.g., on the beach or under the stars), as well as the “prelude” or build-up to sex (e.g., drinking champagne at a candlelight dinner before adjourning to the bedroom). Third, men are more likely than women to fantasize about having several sexual partners at the same time. Finally, the sexes also differ when it comes to fantasizing about dominance and submission. While men are equally likely to fantasize about being dominant and submissive, women seem to fantasize more about being submissive than dominant.
I find this kind of funny.
Actually I find it very funny. So many interesting differences between men and women.
I remember when one of my friends was a Bachelor (now he is married and husk of the dude I used to know) some things in his apartment he had two sets of. There was the everyday stuff he had for himself, then there was of course the stuff he had for the chicks he brought over; like softer sheets and pillows, scented candles, a 4 piece dish set. I didn’t even know he could eat off a plate with a knife and fork. I remember checking in on him and I saw his apartment , clean, and it didn’t even look like the same apartment. There was a vase with a single flower, on the table, all the dishes were clean. He had some wine in the fridge. I asked wtf happened to him? I’ll never forget what he told me quite straight faced: “Bitches love this shit. They love comfortable settings.”**FOR THE RECORD I do not consider women to be bitches. They are lovely angelic beings. Just talking slang here, no need for the picket signs and accusations of Bitch Shaming**
I wish I had the magical ability to show the chick(s) he was bringing over that night how much of a fucking slob this dude was at all other times. I mean he was a fucking pig. You would thing you were at the zoo, beer bottles everywhere, empty pizza boxes, socks laying around. If she was cool with it he probably would have fuck her on top of old take out containers and magazines that was his couch cover when she wasn’t around.
Of course throw in some alcohol and people are doing it behind the dumpster and in alleyways But that’s a different story.
Ah to be young again